Showing posts with label How To Date Hotter Girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How To Date Hotter Girls. Show all posts

Saturday, 8 January 2011

Vin DiCarlo Give Your Woman This "Lie Detector Test"

Would you like to know if that beautiful woman you're talking to is lying to you?


Sure, maybe she's telling the truth about where she works... What she likes and doesn't like...

… But she MAY be lying to you, about something much more important. It's a much more sinister lie. One designed to suck your confidence dry... and... Leave you broken hearted.

You see...


MANY WOMEN WILL LIE
 ABOUT WHETHER SHE
 “LIKES” YOU – OR NOT!


And they have the most destructive ways of lying, as well.

For instance:

Has a woman ever told you how great of a person you are... and then... Told you she couldn't date you?

It makes no sense at all...

… She's looking for a good man, and you're a good man. So either she's lying to you... or... You're missing some piece of the formula.

The sad truth is – it's a mix of both of the above.

She simply doesn't feel that powerful pull of sexual ATTRACTION for you. And because she doesn't feel this pull, she can't date you or get physical with you in the long run.

BUT! There is a “cure.”

There is a “lie detector test” you can give any woman you know, which will show you where you stand – in just a matter of seconds.

Better yet – She can't “fake” the answer, no matter how hard she tries! So when you give her this test, you find out her true thoughts about you, romantically, without any sugar-coated.

Best of all – Simply giving her this lie detector test builds her sexual attraction for you, because you stand out from the crowd.

Most men are working to get in her pants and have sex with her. Most men try to get her naked before they ever know HER as an individual woman.

However... When you give your woman this “lie detector test”... You will look into her “soul” and show her you appreciate her inner personality and sexuality.

Which is INCREDIBLY attractive to her.

So...

HERE IS THE “LIE DETECTOR TEST”... AND... EXACTLY HOW
 TO MAKE IT WORK, FOR YOU:


How can you tell if a woman is “lying” about liking you? Or simply get the REAL answer, without asking her, directly?

Because:

If you ask her, she can lie...

If you ask her, she can give you “half truths”...

If you ask her, she can say exactly what you want to hear, instead of the “truth”...

The solution is really quite simple...

DON'T ASK HER ANYTHING AT ALL!

Because how can you *really* tell when people are telling the truth?

How does a LIE DETECTOR tell if people are telling the truth?

Well, it doesn't ask them questions and then try to “judge” the answers based on content or merit.

Nope.

It looks at a person's heartbeat... Breath... Temperature... All the things a woman couldn't fake if she tried.

And you're going to do the same, when you give your woman this lie detector: You're going to look at the things she does, instead of what she SAYS.

In fact, you're going to look for 3 things...

THESE 3 THINGS GIVE YOU
 THE ANSWER TO: “DOES SHE LIKE ME... OR NOT?”

You're going to look at her views on DATING...

You're going to look at her views on SEX...

You're going to look at her views on RELATIONSHIPS...

… And you're going to take the answers, and put them together into on “Type” of woman she is.

Then, you're going to take this “Type” of woman, and follow a simple system that takes her deepest desires – the ones she hides from her parents and even her friends – and uses these deepest desires as ammo for you to seduce her.

Because when you seduce her on such a deep, personal level – she has no choice but to be attracted to you.

So you never even HAVE to worry about her “lying” to you, at all.

Truth be told – this “lie detector test” is actually a “proven strategy to prevent lying altogether” and it's much simpler than any “test” could ever be.

It's only three steps.

It takes only minutes.

And you can find out every painstaking, careful detail, right here:


Simply enter your email, and I'll send you a free article, free video and free quiz that reveals this “lie detector system” in complete detail.

You'll see how easy it is...

You'll see how to use it in your life...

You'll reap the rewards of peeking into a woman's mind...

… And you'll do it all for free, when you click this link, then enter your email in the box:


Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Don't wait. Don't delay.

Because your free article, your free video and your free quiz are only free for the rest of this week – for sure.

Next Monday, I'm looking at how many men downloaded the article and the video and the quiz, and I'm making a decision:

If the number gets too high, I'm pulling the plug for good.

Why? Well, because I use this strategy in my own personal dating life. And if everybody and his brother gets their hands on this program, they're going to have the power to steal MY women, if they wanted.

And I can't have that!

So I'm limiting these free goodies to just 2,000 men worldwide, this week. If you're part of that number, welcome
to the pack.

If not – Sorry, but you missed out.

Find out, right now. Click this link, then enter your email to get your free article, your free video and your free quiz:


… If they're still available.

Saturday, 1 January 2011

Vin Di Carlo - How To Say The Right Thing, At The Right Time

I'm going to break down “meeting women” into the simplest form possible.

At it's absolute core, being good with women means doing one thing – and only one thing - incredibly well.


Being good with women means always saying the “RIGHT” thing at the “RIGHT” time.

Now, both of those “right”s are very subjective. You could argue that the “right” thing is always the funny thing...

… Or that the “right” time doesn't exist...

… And you'd probably be right, on both accounts. IF – and only if -
you wanted to say the “right” thing at the “right” time to ALL women!

You see, you CAN'T possibly say the right thing at the right time to every woman in the world.

Because let's face it – all women are NOT the same!

What you CAN do is say the “right” thing at the “right” time on a woman to woman basis.

In fact, this is actually quite EASY.

I'mgoing to show you HOW easy it is, exactly what I mean and how to say the “right” thing WHENEVER you talk to a beautiful woman.

So let's dig right into it...

HOW TO SAY THE “RIGHT” THING
AT THE “RIGHT” TIME – EVERY TIME...
The secret is figuring out what she wants, from you. And then giving it to her.

Revolutionary, right? ;-)

It's easier said than done, for sure. Women are complex creatures. She seems to want something different, every time she opens her mouth.

Not to mention differences in cultures, races, countries... etc.

The one and ONLY way I've found to figure out what a woman wants you to say is to “Read Her Mind.”

Lemme explain:

Obviously, you can't “read” someone's mind in the fiction-novel sense of the word. At any given time, it is impossible to tell what a woman is thinking.

The possibilities are just too great!

HOWEVER -

When you narrow down her thoughts to just her thoughts about men, sex and relationships... Your job gets MUCH easier!

In fact, at any given time, a woman who is thinking about men, sex or relationships is REALLY only thinking about three things:

1) HOW DO I FIND THE “PERFECT”
GUY?

And she solves this problem in one of two ways. She either:

a) Dates around, until she finds a guy who fits her mould of an “ideal” guy... or...

b) Finds a guy who is a 75% match to her “ideal” guy... and... Spends the rest of her time and energy trying to 'change' him into her “ideal” man.

Both let her find her “ideal” man, but are on opposite sides of the spectrum.

2) HOW DO I GET SEXUAL PLEASURE, WITHOUT FEELING LIKE A SLUT?

And she solves this problem in one of two ways, as well. She either:

a)Sleeps around, then justifies it to herself, saying, “Unless I taste a little variety, I'll never know what I really like in bed”
... or...

b) She denies sexual pleasure to ANY of the men in her life... until... She finds a “special” guy she wants to give it to.

Both keep her from feeling like a “slut”, they just handle it in opposite ways.

3) WHAT DO I WANT FROM A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP?

And her answer is going to be one of two options:

a) She wants the traditional white-picket fence, “homemaker” life for herself...
or...

b) She wants to be an independent, career-driven woman with a spouse who supports her EMOTIONALLY.

Both of these make her feel happy in the long run, but both are completely opposite personality types.

NOW THAT WE KNOW WHAT
 SHE'S THINKING, HERE'S HOW
 TO SAY THE “RIGHT” THING...
You see, these “problems” she has, and her individual solutions to each show up in more than her thoughts.

How she acts...

How she dresses...

The friends she hangs around with...

How she treats guys in her life...

… Even whether or not she's a “spiritual” person can be traced to her decisions in these 3 areas!

(Reproducing – mating – IS our biggest evolutionary drive, after all... Our whole LIVES are based around “getting some!”)

So in order to “Read Her Mind” and figure out her answers to her three questions about men, sex and relationships...

ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS LOOK FOR THE “RIGHT” SIGNALS!

Once you know which “signals” she's giving off with her dress, her attitude, her beliefs... you'll have no trouble at all “tailoring” your conversation to match her beliefs.

(OR – you can figure out if she's a good “fit” for you, down the road, before you get in “too deep”)

I'd like to tell you which signals to look for... how to tell which “type” of woman she is... what MAJOR mistakes to avoid... and a whole lot more.

And I'd like to tell you all of the above – for free.

All you gotta do is click the link below, then fill in your email address in the page that follows.

Because once you enter your email address, I'm going to send you a free article titled “One Minute Mind Reading”

Inside this article, you'll learn even MORE about a woman's three major “problems” when it comes to men, sex and relationships.

And you'll see how to USE this information in the real world – with examples.

A few days later, I'll send you a free video
called “The Candy Store Video” because in it, I show you how meeting a woman can be fun and easy as being a kid in a candy store.

In fact, I introduce you to all EIGHT types of women... and I show you the MAJOR mistakes you MUST avoid, if you want to meet, date or sleep with her.

(ESPECIALLY if she's a woman you already have your eye on)

Two days after you get your free video,
I'm going to send you a free quiz. Take this quiz about a woman in your life – it's just an easy 9 questions – and I'll show you EXACTLY which type she is.

So you can flip back in your free article and re-watch your free video for tips to get her … and... the MAJOR mistake you NEED to avoid when talking to her.

(Screw this up – and you're done for!)

Best of all – while I'm sending you all of these free goodies – I'll also send you emails that show you – step-by-step - how to USE the information in your free article, your
free video and your free quiz to seduce ANY woman on the face of the earth.

(INCLUDING that one girl you have your eye on, right now!)

All YOU have to do, is click the link below. Then, fill in your email in the box on the following page.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Don't delay, though.

Because although I promise you WILL get your free article, your free video and your free quiz if you click this link and enter your email, right now...

… I can't promise your gifts will be around forever. Let me explain:

You see, these free gifts reveal exactly what I PERSONALLY do to meet the beautiful women I have in my life.

And I don't want their effectiveness dulled or diluted because too many men are using my techniques.

So... Each week... I check to see how many men have downloaded your free article, free video and free quiz.

If and when this number breaks 2,000, I am taking these free gifts off the market, never to be seen again.

So, if you're interested at all in finding out EXACTLY what you would learn about a woman, if you were to read her diary...

… including her deepest desires for men, for sex and for a relationship...

… ESPECIALLY how YOU can usethis information to meet, date or sleep with ANY woman you want...

… then I highly recommend clicking the link below and entering your email on the following page, right now:

(if they're still available...)

Rob Judge - Almost Died To Get A Date!

Today's article was conceived in its totality a split second before I was nearly annihilated.



At 6:23pm, on Saturday, my business partner Zack and I were sitting outside at a sidewalk café. We were enjoying the fading sunlight of an usually balmy spring day.

After we squared away the check, we stood up and started strolling down a quiet side street in the West Village. When we were a few paces from the café, Zack pointed out a girl across the street.

“Hey man,” Zack said in a familiar tone, nudging me, “There’s your next girlfriend. Go meet her.”

I laughed, but parried the challenge. “Nah,” I said, “I’m stuffed from dinner. I’ll meet my next girlfriend tonigh—”

Before I could finish the excuse, a loud tire screech sounded behind us—the unmistakable sound of a car losing control.

I whipped around to find a yellow van cab racing toward us. Before the reality of this even registered, the van popped over the curb and smashed head-on into a store front not 3 feet from us. The impact was that of an enraged battering ram, the van had been moving with such speed that the back wheels actually lifted off the ground.

Paralyzed, I just stared.

One second the van was driving, now it was lodged into a wall. Its crumbled hood looking like a severed human face with the nose freshly lopped off. But instead of blood, the van gushed gasoline.

Looking down I saw the deadly black liquid pooling around my boots. The van’s door whooshed open, someone inside screaming, “It’s leaking gas! RUN!”

The passengers scattered in all directions. Zack grabbed me by the hood of my sweatshirt, “Come on, man! Let’s get the hell out of here!”

“Yeah,” I said, craning my neck, trying to make sense of what just happened. “Let’s go.”

We darted up the block, not a word spoken between us.

At the corner, a man cradling a baby stared at us, his mouth hanging open. “You two,” he whispered, rocking the baby, “Someone’s watching out for you two. You’re lucky to be alive. Damn lucky.”

It was then that the gravity of what had just happened washed over me. My brain was like a jammed movie projector, playing the scene over and over in the theater of my memory.

All the cliché if’s surfaced: If we’d been walking a pace slower, if we’d stopped for half a second.

Then, because the moment was inextricably tied to the scene, I thought of my interrupted excuse right before the screech. “I’ll meet my next girlfriend tonigh—” Another tonight almost didn’t exist.




Here we go again, I can hear you sigh, another boring anecdote about a near-death experience that made someone realize the importance of living life to the fullest. You’re only half right.

While yes, nearly having my body crushed between the grill of a New York cab and a concrete store front made me appreciate the beauty of life, I’d rather focus on that interrupted moment before impact, the “I’ll meet my next girlfriend tonigh—” moment.

As anyone who’s applied dating advice to (actually) meeting women knows, the only real helpful information is that which gets you to change your bad mindsets.

Because as we all know your mindsets dictate how you think which dictates how you feel which dictates how you behave which dictates how attractive you are. Therefore, I’m relaying my nerve-wrecking anecdote because I want shift one itty, bitty little distinction in your mind: the difference between living hope versus living reality.

Had I died last weekend, do you think I would’ve gone to my grave content I’d done everything I’ve set out to do? Hell no! There are so many more girls I want to meet, projects I want to finish, places I want to see, and things (and people) I want to do.

How, then, will I be content when it is time for me to die and the out-of-control taxi doesn’t miss by a few feet?

Answer: By choosing to live my life in reality, not hope.

I devoted an entire chapter to “hope versus realty” in our book, but this weekend reinforced it.

To live in hope is to wake up with the perpetual belief that “things are going to get better.” Living in hope feels nice because you feel as if you’re taking the active steps to improve your life.

You read the self-help books, you join the mastermind group or message board, you watch the seminars and absorb the knowledge. You’re convinced that you’re not just another loser—you’re making progress!

But I call bullshit—you’re not making progress, you’re just wallowing in hope. If you aren’t actually making tangible gains toward your goals each day, you’re just another disillusioned information-addict sucking the tit of hope.

You’re never going to be truly happy, truly successful, or truly alive. And the moment before you die, you’ll realize you were never alive to begin with.

So, then, what’s the alternative?

Answer: Reality.

You must make a promise to yourself to live in reality each day if you want to truly live your life. Reality can be harsh, it can be embarrassing, it be uncomfortable—living in reality means living at the mercy of rejection, of failure, of messing up.

Living in reality means putting what you learned to the test, finding out if those “feel good” emotions you got learning it are actually legitimate, or just more mental masturbation with no practical application.

That’s all I need to explain about living in reality—either you get it or you don’t. And if you don’t get it, it’s not my failure as writer to define it—it’s your failure as a living human to accept it.

You were given your life as a gift, nicely packaged in a fancy plastic wrapping called “hope.” It’s your decision whether or not you’re going to open that fancy wrapping and use your life, or just admire it from a distance.




Hope or reality?

That’s your choice to make; however, you may not realize you made the wrong choice until a split second before you’re annihilated—or almost annihilated.

And if you that little anecdote fired you up, then you really have to do yourself a favor and read the chapter on "Hope versus Reality" in our book, The 4 Elements of Game. I promise the words will tattoo themselves in your brain and you'll never be able to live your life like a loser again.

It'll force you to take action and achieve the life you really want--a life filled with dating hotter girls! Live your life TODAY by clicking on the link below:

Read the chapter on choosing reality over hope in The 4 Elements of Game

To living life to the absolute fullest--today.

Rob Judge; The 7 Deadly Mistakes of Approaching A Woman That Will Turn Her Off Instantly

By Rob Judge 

Often Women Know Within the First 10 Seconds of Meeting a Man Whether They Are Going to Sleep with Him or Not…So Here Are The 7 Things Most Men Do To Immediately Disqualify Themselves—And How to Make Sure You Avoid All Of Them






7. Trying Too Hard

Have you ever seen a guy who was so obviously trying to act cool or look important, but he just ended up being the guy all the women laughed about later and made fun of? Sure you have. Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seem to hookup with the guy who “doesn’t seem to care”…but for some reason they never considered you, even though you put in way more effort.

What’s up with that? Actually it’s very simple…

Women don’t hookup with the guy who’s “putting in the most effort.” They hookup with guys they perceive to be “attractive”—which is just a convenient way to say “guys they think are cooler than they are.” And nothing says to a woman “you’re way cooler than me” than a guy who exerts a lot of effort in an interaction—especially when meeting someone for the first time.

I realize this isn’t always obvious. It may be hard to chill out and stop trying so hard…but get used to it. Until you relax and keep yourself from obviously trying to “get” her attention and attraction, you’ll never even get off the ground with attractive woman.

6.
Chatting But Not Attracting

What do most guys do when they are talking with a woman they find attractive? Right! They turn into Dr. Phil and play daytime talk show host as they “interview her” and try to pick topics she likes…

Well, here’s a newsflash for you…you will NEVER SPARK ATTRACTION WITH A WOMAN BY JUST AIMLESSLY CHATTING WITH HER! Woman are stimulated by emotions and tension (a.k.a., flirting). Just think of the adventurous types of men women tend to like…bad boys, rock stars, and celebrities.

For most of us guys, women don’t immediately drool over us based on our looks or status—so how in the world do we expect to stoke her attraction by just having a boring chat? Yet we all do it. When a woman gives us her attention, we try to play it safe, ask the questions we think she’ll like, talk about stuff that’s neutral or common, and do our best to keep her talking to us. Bad idea. One that will never fan the flames of her attraction.

5.
Apologize For Liking Her

Another huge and avoidable mistake that most guys make with when approach a woman is apologizing for feeling attracted to her—or even apologizing for wanting to talk to her. Attractive women intimidate most guys. And they get men bending over backwards to appease them all the time. Men jump through their hoops, do whatever it takes to keep them happy, and often go out of their way to make sure they feel “comfortable” and “not offended.”

And guess what? Attractive women wait until guy-after-guy admits SHAMEFULLY that he’s attracted to her. Sometimes the guy doesn’t come outright and say it, instead he’ll pretend he’s interested in something she likes and use that as a pretext for a date: “Let’s go see Twilight together—and I’ll pay!” Even if the guy actually has the balls to tell her directly, often he first apologizes for wanting to talk to her: “I’m sorry to bother you but…”

This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who are so intimidated by her that you feel you the need to “hide” or “apologize for” the fact you like her—all because you think that makes her feel “more comfortable” around you.

Don’t do it. Be confident in your feelings. You don’t need to come right out and proclaim exactly what you’re feeling, but definitely don’t try to cover it up—or apologize for it.

4.
Taking Yourself Too Seriously

One of the most common mistakes that a guy can make is getting overly emotional before a woman even knows him… because he is taking the interaction (and himself) way too seriously… and investing all of his male ego and pride into one interaction, with one girl (who he doesn’t even know yet!). And sure, as men, it can be hard to get over our pride when approaching a woman for the first time.

But YOU MUST.

We all know women love men with a sense of humor, yet how can we be “funny” or even “interesting” if we are trying to micromanage every aspect of an interaction with an attractive woman? Instead, relax. Lighten up. Learn to laugh a little at yourself. And you’ll see this attitude will attract women to you like a magnet.

3.
Making It Obvious You Rehearsed Your Approach

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to try so hard that you make it apparent you see the woman as “cooler” than you. Well, another way men signal to a woman they feel “less cool” than her is by rehearsing their approach. Put another way, guys worry about every detail of an approach—from the opening line to how to ask for her number—and they play and replay the scene in their head. Another bad idea…

Women are never attracted to men who aren’t in control of a situation and display leadership qualities (a.k.a., confidence)…women just aren’t attracted to insecure wimps! Don’t worry that you need to rehearse every detail before approaching a woman. Just do it—and feel confident that you can handle whatever happens!

2.
Not Understanding How To Tactfully Move Things Forward

Now I’m going to blow you away with a little insider dating secret… A woman is expecting you to move an interaction forward… and actually will get turned off if you fail to do so. Let me say this again: If you don’t move an interaction toward intimacy and get physical with her, women will actually LOSE their attraction to you.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re talking to a girl for more than a couple minutes, she’s probably already thinking, “Okay, when is going to ask for my number?” or even, “Okay, so when is he going to kiss me?” And if you don’t do it—or fail to do it smoothly—then she’ll actually “cool off” and start thinking of ways to dismiss you: “I think we’re better off just being friends…”

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating… Confidently approaching a woman, going for the number, asking her out, kissing her, getting sexual… everything. If you hesitate or don’t know what to do in each situation, you will end up losing EVERYTHING. And you know it.

It is crucial that you understand how to tactfully move from one step to the next with a woman… from the approach, all the way to the bedroom.

1.
Not Seeking Out Direction or Help

Here it is: The most deadly mistake men make that ensures they remain single and never date the girl they really want. This is the one mistake that holds men back from EVER having the kind of success with women that would leave them truly satisfied. I know, we’re guys so we hate to seem helpless—we don’t even like to ask for directions, let alone dating help.

I’d know, I was there myself at one point. A couple years ago, I moved to New York City after graduating college and felt completely frustrated that I’d pass beautiful women all day, but I didn’t have a clue how to approach them, meet them, and get dates with them. It was like slow torture!

One weekend I met up with a friend from college, and we spotted 2 women we wanted to meet, but neither of us had the balls to approach them. I can still see the movie of that night playing in my head…right then I decided I had to do whatever it took to learn how to successfully meet and date women.

Well, after lots of “field work” and trying all kinds of crazy tips and techniques, I finally mastered it. And it was definitely worth it. I no longer feel that paralyzing feeling of insecurity… like I don’t know if I’ll ever meet a girl I’m really attracted to… and I might end up single forever. I know that I can just stroll outside and meet beautiful woman anytime, anywhere.

I’ve written a book on the topic, and I’ve coached guys all across the United States… and taught thousands of men all across the world. If you’re serious about getting this area of your life handled and you want to discover what really works, click on the link below to learn more.

The 4 Elements of Game


Rob Judge

Sunday, 26 December 2010

Vin Di Carlo - So What Can The FBI Teach You About Meeting Women?

So what can the FBI teach you about meeting women?

Well... as it turns out... Those  black-suited government agents have an entire DIVISION devoted to the one skill you need to seduce ANY woman.

That skill is called “reading her mind”... And the FBI's division is called The  Profiling Division.

In it, they use tools and knowledge to “search” a target's soul, and learn everything about him or her...

They track killers.

They catch robbers.

They can find anyone, anywhere, and they do it all by getting into your MIND.

You can do the same thing, with women.

(Obviously, not to hunt and find them... but to seduce her, and make her feel good)

The KEY is learning how to read a woman's MIND. Which is actually incredibly simple. I'll show you how in just a second...

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HOW THE FBI AND THEIR
PROFILERS CAN READ
YOUR MIND...
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… The secret is, these “profilers” aren't the special people you see on TV, like Monk who has a super-computer for a brain.

Nope, these profilers are your average,everyday Joe, like you and me. They simply have a special skill set that you can learn through a bit of practice... and...
… One MASSIVE secret they want to keep from getting public!
The secret is this:
People – including women – Think About Only 10-12 Things, 99%  Of The Time!



This means 99% of the time, you're thinking about a handful of topics, and this handful of topics only.

99% of the time, you're thinking about sex, your job, a goal you're going after, your friends, your family, and just a few other topics.
The secret is – So am I. So are the women you want to seduce. And in fact...
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WOMEN ONLY THINK ABOUT
3 THINGS, WHEN THEY THINK
ABOUT MEN, SEX & DATING!
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And it's these 3 things – and these 3 things ONLY – you need to know about a woman you want.

Once you know, you'll know how to seduce her. Because she spends 99% of her time thinking about:

* HER PERFECT DATING EXPERIENCE
This is how much time she spends with him... Where they go... How they meet...
* HER PERFECT SEX EXPERIENCE
This is whether it's with one man – or many... Whether she saves sex for marriage... Whether she needs to feel loved or excited...
* HER PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
This is whether she wants a white picket fence... or... To pursue her own careers... Whether she wants a man to take care of her... or... A man to work WITH her...
… And once you know where she
“stands” on these 3 topics, you will know everything she's thinking about men, sex and dating.
(And how you can use this information to seduce her!)

How do you get this info? It's really quite simple...

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HOW FBI PROFILERS CAN HELP
YOU FIGURE OUT WHERE SHE
STANDS ON ALL 3 TOPICS...
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You see, an FBI profiler doesn't walk up to his target and start asking questions. Neither should you.
In fact, those FBI profilers can “seduce” and “diagnose” their targets from hundreds of miles away. And it's all because they look for 'tells' and giveaways...
You see, as people, we DO THINGS according to what we think about and believe. The  most readily available example is how we dress: Based on the music we like, or the culture we belong to, we will dress in a way that matches up.
More or less.
And it's the same thing with women.  She “acts” a certain way, because she believes certain things about men, sex and dating.
These beliefs influence everything from  her choice of clothes, to whether or not she has a tattoo, to how much time she spends with her family...
… Everything.
And best of all – you can usually tell where she stands on all three of our “hot issues” within the first 60 seconds you meet her.
For now, I don't have enough time or space to give you the details. But if you want to know more... including exactly what the 8 “types” of women are... how you can use this information to get ANY woman you set your sights on...
… And even how to “Read” a Woman's Mind, tell what she's thinking and get her phone number in under 60 seconds...

… Then simply click the link below, and enter your email address. I will send you a free article, free video and even a quiz on the topic.


(Take this quiz about a woman you like … and... You'll find out EXACTLY how to seduce her, quickly!)

Just click here, enter your email and tell me where to send the rest of this information.


I look forward to hearing from you soon. :-)
Your Friend,
- Vin

PS. Don't wait too long – I'm only taking the first 2,000 men my good friend who sent you this email sends my way.

Once he's hit that number – and trust me, he'll hit that number very quickly – I'm pulling the rest of this information off the market.

Why? Well, it's really very simple: This is the information I use in my life, to seduce the women I find
attractive.

And if I send it to any more than 2,000 men... I feel like it will weaken the  effectiveness. No longer will this information belong to a “select few” and women may start to look for it, or grow resistant.
My sex life is too important to risk that backlash!

So... If you'd like to know how to read a woman's mind... I highly recommend you click the link  below – quickly.


(Before my friend's 2,000 slots fill up – for good)
affirmation I use in my life, to seduce the women I find  attractive.

And if I send it to any more than 2,000 men... I feel like it will weaken the effect

Ross Jeffries - The Ethics of Boyfriend Destroying!

Here is an email I received on the subject

"Ross,

I for one do not appreciate this whole "boyfriend" destroying thing.

I have a girlfriend who I love very much(thanks to your teachings) and I wouldn't want anyone taking her away from me.

Think about what you are teaching and then think again.

Some of this stuff isn't right or ethical. Breaking relationships isn't right.

And you do not have my permission to use my name in this email

Mr. Anonymous"

Ok, Anon. Different strokes for different folks.

But here is a point to consider: while it is great you love your girlfriend (and I assume it is great she loves you), not every girl and guy are going to be in that situation.

It's just a sad fact that many women who SAY they have a boyfriend either are lying outright, responding out of auto-pilot, or they are stuck in relationships in which they are not happy.

The reality is, most very attractive women ARE probably going to be with someone.

If you wait until you find girls who are totally officially "single" you may be waiting a long time.

Personally, I find technology(and Speed Seduction® is an technology) to be morally neutral.

You can use fire to heat your camp at night. Or you can use it to burn down a building.

You can use a knife to stab an innocent person in the heart. Or you can use it to cut someone's bonds and set them free.

Speaking for myself alone, I believe that not caving in to a woman's first "knee-jerk" response is a good thing.

I'm creating a space for her to have a new choice, to respond with more freedom and act differently.

Listen: if she really, REALLY loves the guy, she will let you know and you aren't going to get anywhere anyway.

Let me make it clear: NOTHING works all the time.

And that is the way it is in the real world, and that's ok.

Meantime, if you guys want to learn how to meet women easily, anytime, anywhere, and totally have them eating out of the palm of your hand(and the fly of your pants) just go here:
And if the women you meet tell you "I have a boyfriend" it's nice to know you know how to respond even if you choose not to.

Peace and piece

RJ

P.S. Anon, if I ever meet YOUR girlfriend I WILL run a boyfriend destroyer on her, just because you are such a preachy little schmuck.

P.P.S. Want to get women steaming in minutes with one of three simple, seemingly innocent touches? Check out the Advanced Irresistible Arousal DVD:

Ross Jeffries - Word For Word Three Minute Street Pick Up!

It absolutely amazes me when guys claim they just don't know what to say to meet women.

By far, this is one of the top complaints I get from men.

In fact, worrying about WHAT to say is looking at the challenge from the wrong level.

Listen: it's not that what you say doesn't matter. It's that what you say is a function of what attitude or energy you want to project.

As I teach in my Gold Walk Up DVD that has been flying off the shelves

(http://tiny.cc/jq1ao), there are 4 basic approach attitudes or positions that you use to meet women anytime, anywhere, in any situation and never have to worry about what comes out of your mouth.

To illustrate, let me tell you how I did a 3 minute(actually about 3 1/2 minutes) pick up yesterday, while going to my dry cleaners. I used 2 of the 4 positions, in combination with each other, and didn't have to worry one minute about what I was saying.

Here Is Exactly How It Happened

I drove up to my dry-cleaners and got out of my Saab. As I was entering, a very hot blonde was leaving.

She walked by me and unlocked the door to her car.

Using approach position #1(comment, question or observation) I said to her, "How do you like your car?"

She said, "I like it a lot, but it guzzles gas."

Me, (shifting to approach position #2, and shaking my head); "It's too short".

Her: "No, it's a big car."

Me (shaking my head again, approach position #2) "It's too short".

Her: "What's too short?"

Me: Life…to hesitate..when you see someone you think is incredibly attractive

Her:(blushing and laughing) Wow, that's incredibly sweet

Me: (playfully punching her on the arm) I was talking about me!

Then I introduced myself and said, "I'm glad you laughed because a sense of humor is really important to me. Now, let's see if we are snack-compatible".

I then went into my amazing Snack Quiz opener which is like cat-nip to women. For some reason they LOVE taking quizzes, love being tested, and love to see if they qualify! Even though it is a total joke, they always go for it and as nutty as it seems, it immediately sets the frame that ***I*** am the one testing and selecting THEM, rather than the other way around.

This is crucially important; if you can make a woman feel that she is the one who has to prove herself to you, then you are setting a "frame". And whomever controls the frame..

Controls Whatever Happens Inside The Frame!

Now, this isn't bad for the first 3 minutes of conversation!

(By the way, you can learn all about setting the frame for women to dramatically increase your seduction success by checking out my "Frame Control" Video series but ONLY if you already own a Home Study Course! This is NOT a product for beginners:
Here is the really interesting thing-since I didn't have a lot of time to chat , I paced the situation(as I teach to do) and said, "Look, we haven't really had a lot of time to talk, and
normally after such a short while, I wouldn't pursue it…but I sense you are open to discovering wonderful things."

Note what I am doing here. I am pacing HER possible objection of "but I don't really know you" by doing it first. That way, she can no longer have that objection.

But simply demolishing her objection isn't enough for your good ol' Guru and for you, the budding master seducer and persuader, it shouldn't be either.

I also want to give her a better place to go.

This is a key principle in any kind of persuasion.

Once you remove someone's autopilot objection, ALWAYS give them a better place to go or the objection will probably return.

In this case, I gave her a good image to live up to by saying that I sensed she was open to discovering wonderful things, but I REMAIN VAGUE.

You see, I don't say WHAT those wonderful things are. That way her own mind and imagination will fill in the blanks and make it fit just right.

Had I told her WHAT wonderful things, they might not have fit, and she could have rejected it.

By being vague, I let her own imagination create the perfect fit.

We exchanged information, after I said, "So what steps can we take to make sure that happens" and SHE called me that night!

Not bad for 3 1/2 minutes in a dry cleaners' parking lot. And more importantly, look at how strongly in that short time I established a frame that she is the one who has to prove herself
to me.

One last interesting point; on the phone call, she said, "I have to let you know, I do have a boyfriend".

My response? "No problem; I don't want to be a boyfriend. Too many rules and too many roles. I'd rather just relax and get to enjoy each other without all those heartaches and pressures."
She's coming over tonight.

Peace and piece

RJ

P.S. Note how I used implication to, without actually saying it, insinuate that her boyfriend causes her heartaches and pressures. Also, note how I kept it vague when I said "relax and
enjoy each other". I didn't say specifically how, did I? Again, knowing when to be vague is incredibly powerful, something I teach in the Speed Seduction Home Study Course
P.P.S. If you want to learn, master, and easily use the 4 approach positions to meet women, anytime, anywhere, demonstrated by me on live female subjects, check out the Gold Walk Up DVD, our #2 best seller this year:  http://tiny.cc/jq1ao

Ross Jeffries - Three Kinds Of Seduction Confidence

Many times, students come to me after a long period of being single; either they are coming out of a long relationship, a marriage that is ending, or they just have never gotten the hang of being at ease around women.
Many of these students make the mistake of expecting to be totally powerful, at ease and smooth right out of the gate and get disappointed when they can’t quite get there right away.

So let me point out that, actually, there are 3 kinds of confidence that can work for you.
First, there is “performance” confidence.

Performance confidence comes from already having done something well many times in the past. 

You’ve successfully scored a 30 ft jump shot 1,000 times before, so you are pretty at ease on the court, knowing you can do it again.

The paradox comes when you are in an area of life where you have NOT done well before. How do you get performance confidence when you have little experience, or lots of experience and MOST of it “bad”?
Now, even newbies can get performance confidence. The key here is to start with very small pieces and work your way up gradually, a little bit at a time. That way, you are stretching your comfort zone and what your mind believes you can do, inside.  You are stretching just enough to learn and move ahead but not so much that you feel there is any danger in your mind.

Think about it like this: when I first started out teaching myself this stuff and experimenting, sometimes all I could do is the smallest little piece. But I kept right on building, gradually being able to do more and more.

The next kind of confidence is very useful to beginner and veteran student alike:
I call it “acceptance” confidence.

Now, acceptance confidence is NOT about puffing yourself up and charging in like a bull after a cow.

Acceptance confidence is about realizing the following attitude, “You know, I’m not sure how I will do or what will happen, but at the very least, I’ll learning something and have some fun.”

You see, acceptance confidence is not about having a “will” of steel.

It’s about having “willingness” and giving yourself permission.

It’s about having good beliefs about learning and giving yourself permission to fuck up, learn and laugh through what to others might seem or feel like starting to fail.

One of the realizations I had came from a discussion I had with my good friend, Vince Kelvin.  I was pointing out some areas of my life that were producing some intense frustration and he said, “What if those areas weren’t really frustrating? What if they were just markers: book marks that are showing you chapters of power and ability that you didn’t even know were there, and now that they have your attention, you can open the book to the exact spots and get those chapters read?”

My friend, that kind of attitude is exactly what I “acceptance” confidence is about.

Now, here  are two more things to consider about the power of acceptance confidence:

1.  You can have acceptance confidence at ANY time. It’s not about skill, but about attitude. You can have it right now, this very second, this very moment, reading this. It’s just about giving yourself permission to fuck up and learn and doing it with a bit of a laugh.
2. Women can NOT tell the difference between performance and acceptance confidence and will be as attracted to your acceptance confidence as to someone who has peformance confidence. The “vibe” feels very much the same to them and they are equally drawn!
I’m not kidding about this. Try it for yourself and see.

Projection Confidence
As you might know, I am a big advocate, believer and teacher of “positive” programming.  I believe it can truly work and be truly useful.

By rehearsing how you would like to feel, how you would speak and how you would feel inside trying out new behaviors, you can make these behaviors feel much more real and familiar to your mind and quite effectively increase your ability to try out and do well at new abilities, skills and responses in the field.

I personally recommend my Fear Into Charisma DVD as being the absolute best and easiest “projection confidence” product, but I have other as well. Check out the Fear To Charisma DVD right here at: http://tiny.cc/jq1ao

One Warning About Profoundly Changing

Sometimes when you start truly changing in an important area of life, old habits and patterns and ways of thinking and acting may try to jump up and bite you in the ass.

That is NOT a sign you are “backsliding” or “failing”. It just means that these old ways are actually looking for a way to be released, recycled, refined and redirected to even more empower the vision and reality of who you are every day more and more becoming!

One last point before I close this issue: it also helps to hold a “compassionate” view of the women you desire. This just means that you remember, whether they are pleasing or frustrating you, yielding or resisting, they are still just human beings. They came in the same way you did: naked baby. They will go out the same way you will: no more breathing. And in between those shared events, they are just trying to figure it all out. 

And they have their own moods, problems and insecurities to deal with along the way.

They may be hot.
They may be driving you crazy.
But they are NOT giants. They are just humans.

Peace and piece,

RJ
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